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Jan 28Liked by Esther Nagle

Hi, Esther. I just read your post in the Memoir Writing class on DailyOM and thought I’d check this space out. I didn’t know it was a sober life rocks space. The cool thing is I just gave up drinking alcohol maybe last October. I just decided I was addicted to red wine and I saw it’s negative affect on me and just stopped. I didn’t realize how much it owned me! I’ll have to explore this space a little more.

With that said, I think your writing is absolutely gorgeous! I felt like I was sitting with you as you shared your beautiful story and revelation. Thanks! 🥰

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Oh hi fellow Daily Om writer! And yay for your recent sobriety, it's such a wonderful gift you've given yourself! 💜💜

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Jan 24Liked by Esther Nagle

A beautifully written account of acceptance and embracing change, no matter how uncomfortable. Writing it all down was my salvation when I faced my demons at the beginning of my sobriety, and it continues to be a healing salve for my self inflicted wounds as well as what genetics has thrown at me.

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Thank you Jeff. Writing is such an incredible tool for healing isn't it? I've often said I think I wrote myself sober, as the discoveries I made about myself as I wrote allowed me to heal parts of me I didn't even know needed healing!

Congratulations on your sobriety and writing! It's a great way to live, isn't it?

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Indeed it is! I would never trade even the worst day sober for the best drunk!

I filled notebooks full during that first couple of years. I feel no shame in the tears I shed during that time either!

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Thank you for sharing so vulnerably about what life feels like right now. I do often wonder what our human experience would be like if when asked how we’re doing if we were honest. Would we be able to develop deeper connections?

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It would be a fun experiment-a “be the change” moment. I’ve always struggled with that question of how are you because it just feels like verbal nonsense.

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Thank you for being authentic and vulnerable, Esther. I'm sad to hear of the loss of your mom (sending you a big hug). Journaling does help with processing the sadness and grief and I'm so glad to hear you are giving yourself permission to process your loss.

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Hi Esther, I found you through Writing in the Dark. Love your thoughts on noticing. You might enjoy this. https://open.substack.com/pub/pocketfulofprose/p/go-with-the-flow?r=qqbxq&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

Cheers!

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